Friday, May 16, 2014

A Sure Way To Break A Spell

By Arline Bradley


It is not normally easy to disentangle yourself from a chain that one is tied with. The situation even becomes more complicated when you are not aware that you are under some external influence that is beyond your control. In order to break a spell therefore, you need to be a little bit cautious. Some wisdom is required to deal with such a situation.

Spells are mostly observed in relationships. One of the lovebirds always gains control of the other from some external forces. As a result, it becomes almost impossible to manage in their absence. Consequently, they gain the upper hand and control all your moves in the relationship. It is thus not advisable to be too helpless before your spouse as this can become a stumbling block.

The most surprising reality to come into terms with is that when you are under a spell, others who will realize it. However, on your part it will seem like everything is normal. All the attempts of your family members and friends to convince you will fail. You will feel that they do not understand you or are not happy with your lucky situation.

A great scholar called Socrates used to tell the Athenian youths that you should know thyself. This is very important if at all you would like to strengthen your weaker areas and reinforce your strongholds. Accept your weak areas in order for a chance to strengthen them to be sought. Never tarry until its too late to make a change. Consider views from friends and foes alike. Instead of rubbishing them, put them in a weighing.

At times there is a feeling of self worth that comes to a person making them to behave as if others are lesser beings. This is risky as it makes others shy of helping us when they get the chance to. Those who observe us from the sides can be quite instrumental in making us more aware of ourselves. It is good to have open ears and closed mouths in some situations. The before you leap is thus a saying that comes handy.

For you to break a particular spell, always be willing to hear others out. Do not be the only one speaking. Instead, you better be the only one listening. There are cases where one has to persevere being ashamed for the sake of sobriety. Avoid being proud as it spoils chances of knowing the truth. Its a great show of wisdom when you humbly accept your shortcomings and correct them.

The second and crucial step is to take the necessary step, however hurting it might be. In most cases it is someone closest to you like your spouse who puts you into such situations. Through the freedom that you give them, they can make your life miserable if you are not careful. The decision might involve speaking the truth and stopping some evil acts that have been happening in the background.

You might think you are so smart that a spell cannot affect you. Wait until you are caught and you will realize that you should have moved earlier. You have to watch out always. Examine your situations and see to it that they are no manipulative. Be firm in your decisions.




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