Sunday, February 3, 2019

How To Deal With Raw Emotions

By Jose Roberts


It is not always that you want to express your emotions so that they are raw. You can't walk around being completely open all the time. You have to be in the right place to be vulnerable, with the right people. However, it is important to have raw emotions and to speak from the heart. This is not only going to help you, but it will help others as well.

Fortunately, they are treatable when you work with the right person. There are various types of therapists who know more about treating these issues by using specific techniques. This is based on who they are working with. Sometimes, it will be more practical, and other times, talk therapy is required.

Obviously the patient needs to express him or herself in order for the psychologist to get to know them. A connection needs to be established. This will lead to a trusting relationship which makes it easier for the client to experess themselves. It can take more time for a client to talk about themselves when they have not made the connection.

Your relationships begin to improve as you begin to express yourself. Very often, people don't know what you are feeling inside. When you finally do become angry and say what is on your mind, you will discover that you loved one would not have known what has been going through your mind.

Many people allow things like anger, jealousy and rage to take over their lives. It is not something that they want in their lives. Often, they will start the day on a relaxed note. However, this always seems to go haywire when something small happens. It can be a little road rage and your emotions will get out of control. You will already have started the day in a bad way.

To combat these feeling, it is a good idea to be aware of what you are going through. You need to recognize every time you are being angry with yourself or with those around you. There are specific techniques which can help reduce the anxiety. People engage in mindfulness and meditation. This takes time to get used to the process. It is not instant, but you will find that it pays off.

Learning specific breathing exercises are a bit like meditation as well. It helps you to keep you in the present moment. You will only focus on your breathing and nothing else. People who react quickly will benefit from this. There are also techniques to help them cope in these instances. It can especially be helpful for borderline patients who tend to react. DBT therapy can be helpful for this.

Having the support of family and friends is important. It is not always easy because the individual will say hurtful things, and this is why family members need to be counselled as well. They need to find out more about what the loved one is going through. If this is not possible, and the family members don't offer their support, the individual should join a group which is based on what they are struggling with. This can be very useful because people connect with one another and learn to identify with group members as well. It can be a very special time.




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